Archbishop Kaziimba Tells Men to Skip DNA Tests and Be Like Joseph—But Modern Dads Ask, 'Where’s My Angelic Dream?' Davis Responds to the Archbishop.
To His Grace, The Most Rev. Dr. Stephen Samuel Kaziimba Mugalu,
Archbishop of the Church of Uganda
Subject: A Heartfelt Reflection on Your Advice to Men About DNA Tests
Your Grace,
Warm greetings to you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. I trust this letter finds you well. First and foremost, allow me to thank you for your dedication to guiding God’s people and for always sharing words that spark meaningful conversations. Your advice to men, encouraging them to emulate St. Joseph by avoiding DNA tests and trusting in God, has stirred many hearts and minds, including mine. I humbly ask for your patience as I share my reflections on this important matter.
Your Grace, your call to men is rooted in a deep biblical truth. St. Joseph is a shining example of obedience, love, and faith. When he found out Mary was with child, he initially struggled, but when the angel appeared in a dream and explained the divine plan, Joseph obeyed without hesitation. He accepted Jesus as his son, protected Mary, and became a role model for all fathers. His story inspires us to trust God and prioritize family above all.
However, Your Grace, I believe we need to look at Joseph’s story in the context of his time and compare it with the world men live in today.
St. Joseph had the benefit of divine confirmation. When the angel appeared in his dream, there was no room for doubt. The angel assured him that Mary’s child was conceived by the Holy Spirit. How many men today receive such heavenly assurances? In Joseph’s case, faith was not blind—it was grounded in a direct revelation from God.
Today, men live in a world full of uncertainties. Infidelity, mistrust, and broken families are common issues that many struggle with. A man might have doubts about the paternity of a child, not because he lacks faith or love, but because of the circumstances around him. In such situations, DNA tests can provide clarity and peace of mind. Unlike Joseph, modern men don’t have angels visiting them in dreams to settle these doubts.
Your Grace, the Bible encourages us to seek the truth. In 1 Thessalonians 5:21, Paul says, “Test everything; hold on to what is good.” This teaches us that seeking truth is not a sign of weakness but a pathway to wisdom and justice. A DNA test can be seen as a way of “testing all things” to ensure that men can make informed, responsible decisions about their families.
Imagine a man who takes a DNA test and confirms he is the father of a child. His commitment to that child and the mother will likely grow stronger because it is built on the foundation of truth. On the other hand, a man who is discouraged from seeking clarity might harbor doubts, which can lead to resentment and division in the family. Surely, this is not what God desires for His people.
The world today is vastly different from the time of St. Joseph. Relationships are more complicated, and trust is often tested in ways Joseph never faced. A DNA test is not about rejecting responsibility—it’s about confirming it. It is a tool that helps men take their roles seriously and eliminate any doubts that might harm their ability to love and provide for their families.
Your Grace, it’s important to remember that every man’s situation is unique. While some may use DNA tests as an excuse to run away from their responsibilities, others may genuinely need reassurance to fully commit to their families. Instead of discouraging DNA tests altogether, we might encourage men to use them wisely and responsibly.
Your Grace, I fully understand and respect your intention to promote faith, love, and responsibility among men. However, faith does not mean ignoring the tools and knowledge God has given us. Just as we use medicine to heal our bodies or education to enlighten our minds, we can use DNA tests to bring clarity to our relationships.
Joseph’s faith was extraordinary, but the lesson we can draw from his story is not just blind acceptance—it’s about doing what is right in obedience to God’s will. For some men, taking a DNA test might be the right step toward building trust and ensuring harmony in their families.
As spiritual leaders, your message is vital in reminding men of their God-given roles as protectors, providers, and guides for their families. However, let us also acknowledge the value of truth in strengthening those roles. DNA tests, when used with the right intentions, can help eliminate doubts and foster unity, trust, and love within families.
Your Grace, your message has sparked an important conversation, and I thank you for addressing such a sensitive topic with courage. As we encourage men to emulate Joseph’s faith and love, let us also empower them to seek truth in their relationships. By combining faith with understanding, we can help families build stronger foundations rooted in both love and honesty.
Thank you for your wisdom and leadership, and may God continue to bless you as you guide His people.
Yours faithfully,
Davis Owomugisha,Masya Citizen and
A Fellow Christian
